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Quiz: Do You Know When Someone’s Attracted to You?

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Ever wonder if you’re a master of reading romantic signals or if subtle hints fly right over your head? Take this quiz to find out how well you can tell when someone’s into you. Be honest. The results might surprise you!  For greater insight afterward, see the extras below.

 

1. When someone laughs at your jokes (even the unfunny ones) what do you think?
A) They just have a great sense of humor (1 point)
B) Maybe they’re being polite (2 points)
C) Hmm, maybe they like me? (3 points)
D) Definitely flirting! (4 points)

 

2. A coworker starts touching your arm when talking to you. You…
A) Don’t even notice (1)
B) Assume they’re just friendly (2)
C) Wonder if it means something (3)
D) Instantly recognize the chemistry (4)

 

3. You catch someone looking at you across the room, multiple times. You think:
A) “Is there something on my face?” (1)
B) “Maybe they’re just zoning out.” (2)
C) “They might be into me…” (3)
D) “Oh yeah, the spark is real.” (4)

 

4. They remember tiny details you told them weeks ago. You feel:
A) Surprised, who remembers that? (1)
B) Flattered but unsure why (2)
C) Pretty sure they like me (3)
D) Confident it’s a sign of attraction (4)

 

5. A friend starts teasing you playfully more than usual. You…
A) Think they’re being annoying (1)
B) Wonder why they’re acting different (2)
C) Sense possible flirting (3)
D) Know playful teasing = attraction (4)

 

6. When you talk, they lean in close and hold eye contact. You…
A) Don’t notice (1)
B) Feel a little awkward (2)
C) Think it’s kind of intense (3)
D) Recognize the body language instantly (4)

 

7. Someone compliments you often (your clothes, your smile, your vibe) You think:
A) They’re just being nice (1)
B) It’s friendly flattery (2)
C) Possibly interested (3)
D) Definitely attracted (4)

 

8. When you’re in a group, they always sit or stand close to you. You:
A) Think it’s coincidence (1)
B) Notice it but don’t assume anything (2)
C) Start suspecting interest (3)
D) Know they’re trying to be near you (4)

 

9. You post something online and they’re always the first to react or comment. You:
A) Barely notice (1)
B) Think they’re just active online (2)
C) Wonder if it’s intentional (3)
D) See it as a digital love signal (4)

 

10. They mirror your body language subtly (leaning, smiling, gestures). You:
A) Don’t pick up on it (1)
B) Think it’s coincidence (2)
C) Recognize the pattern (3)
D) Instantly catch on, classic attraction cue (4)

 

11. They seem nervous or fidgety around you. You:
A) Assume they’re just shy (1)
B) Don’t think much of it (2)
C) Suspect it’s about you (3)
D) Recognize it as a telltale crush sign (4)

 

12. A friend tells you, “I think that person likes you.” You:
A) Laugh it off (1)
B) Doubt it completely (2)
C) Consider it (3)
D) Admit you already noticed (4)

 

13. When you flirt, they always flirt back. You:
A) Don’t realize you’re flirting (1)
B) Think it’s just banter (2)
C) Feel the tension (3)
D) Know it’s mutual (4)

 

14. Someone makes an excuse to spend more one-on-one time with you. You:
A) Assume it’s practical (1)
B) Wonder about it later (2)
C) Sense their motive (3)
D) Know they’re finding reasons to be near you (4)

 

15. You often get told you’re “oblivious” about crushes. You:
A) Constantly! I never notice (1)
B) Sometimes (2)
C) Rarely (3)
D) Never, I see attraction a mile away (4)

 

Results 

The Oblivious One (15–27 points)

You’re sweet, genuine, and often focused on connection over cues, but romantic hints might fly right past you! People probably have to spell out their feelings before you catch on. You value sincerity, but reading attraction signals might not be your strong suit. Your honesty and warmth make you deeply likable. Simply stay open to the signs right in front of you!

 

The Maybe-They-Like-Me Type (28–42 points)

You sometimes notice attraction but second-guess yourself. You’re intuitive but cautious, often thinking, “They could like me… but maybe not.” You read some signals but overanalyze others. Trust your gut more.  It’s probably right more often than you think!

 

The Aware Observer (43–54 points)

You’ve got solid instincts. You can read flirting, body language, and attention cues pretty accurately for sure. You’re perceptive without being paranoid.  You pick up signals and interpret them well. People find you socially aware and emotionally intelligent. Keep using that intuition wisely.

 

The Attraction Radar (55–60 points)

You’re a natural detector of chemistry. You pick up on the tiniest micro-signals.  Tone, glance, posture, and more and you know when someone’s into you. You’re confident, socially attuned, and rarely wrong about attraction. Just make sure you don’t overread friendliness.  Otherwise, you’re basically a human lie detector for crushes.

EXTRA! Flirting Signs & Subtle Signals For Men and Women

 

Attraction doesn’t have to be a guessing game. When you understand the differences between flirtation, friendliness, shyness, and genuine interest, relationships become easier to navigate and far more enjoyable. Whether you’re a man or a woman, these signs help you read situations clearly and respond in a confident, respectful, and natural way.

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WOMEN:  A man is flirting when...

  1. He maintains strong, warm, consistent eye contact.

  2. He finds reasons to be physically close to you.

  3. He mirrors your movements and body language.

  4. His body language opens toward you (torso, feet, attention all directed your way).

  5. He asks meaningful questions about your life.

  6. He remembers the small details you mention.

  7. He initiates texts or conversations consistently.

  8. He tries to make you laugh or impress you.

  9. He gives thoughtful, personal compliments.

  10. He creates excuses to spend time with you.

 

A man is shy when...

  1. He steals quick glances and looks away when caught.

  2. He gets nervous or fidgety around you.

  3. He smiles softly and frequently.

  4. He keeps conversation light but steady.

  5. He responds warmly but rarely initiates.

  6. He listens carefully and remembers details.

  7. His friends tease him or act differently around you.

  8. He helps you in small, safe ways.

  9. He blushes or becomes flustered when praised.

  10. He puts effort into his appearance around you.

 

A man is just being friendly when...

  1. He responds but never initiates.

  2. His body language stays closed or neutral.

  3. He treats you the same as everyone else.

  4. He openly talks about other women.

  5. He avoids one-on-one time.

  6. He gives generic, polite compliments.

  7. Conversations stay surface-level.

  8. His responses are slow, short, or inconsistent.

  9. He sets boundaries like “You’re such a good friend.”

  10. He gives polite excuses for not spending time together.

 

WOMEN:  How to flirt back to a man:

  1. Use warm, intentional eye contact and smile.

  2. Mirror his body language.

  3. Give small, genuine compliments.

  4. Ask about his interests and passions.

  5. Lean in slightly when he talks.

  6. Suggest casual, low-pressure plans.

  7. Occasionally, text first.

  8. Express appreciation for his efforts.

  9. Use light, appropriate touch when natural.

  10. Show interest—then give him space to pursue.​

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MEN:  A woman is flirting when...

  1. She initiates conversation or keeps it going.

  2. She finds reasons to be physically near you.

  3. She plays with her hair or neck while talking to you.

  4. She laughs easily and more often around you.

  5. She lightly touches your arm, shoulder, or hand.

  6. She shows genuine curiosity about your life.

  7. She compliments you (appearance, personality, or effort).

  8. Her friends react or tease when you’re around.

  9. She remembers your preferences and small details.

  10. She makes herself more available to spend time with you.

 

A woman is shy when...

  1. She glances at you but looks away fast.

  2. She becomes nervous, quiet, or blushes.

  3. She gives soft, genuine smiles.

  4. She keeps conversation safe but steady.

  5. She responds quickly but rarely initiates.

  6. She listens deeply and remembers everything.

  7. Her friends behave differently or encourage her.

  8. She offers small acts of help or support.

  9. She blushes when you compliment her.

  10. She subtly puts effort into her appearance around you.

 

A woman is just being friendly when...

  1. She is pleasant but never initiates anything.

  2. Her body language stays neutral or closed.

  3. She talks to you the same way she talks to everyone else.

  4. She mentions other men or her dating life.

  5. She avoids spending time alone with you.

  6. She gives light, generic compliments.

  7. She keeps conversation surface-level.

  8. She texts minimally or inconsistently.

  9. She uses phrases like “You’re such a good friend.”

  10. She makes excuses or politely avoids plans.

 

MEN:  How to flirt back to a woman:

  1. Maintain warm, confident eye contact.

  2. Offer thoughtful, specific compliments.

  3. Start light, easygoing conversations.

  4. Use open, relaxed body language.

  5. Match her level of interest, don’t overwhelm.

  6. Suggest casual, low-pressure hangouts.

  7. Be playful and respectful with humor.

  8. Express appreciation in a simple, sincere way.

  9. Use light, appropriate touch when natural.

  10. Show interest but give her space to respond.

 

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