by Team TCP

 

Discretely tally results.  No electronic results mean 100% question answer confidentiality for every quiz.

 

Disclaimer: This quiz is for entertainment purposes. Parenting is a journey, and everyone has areas for growth. If you're struggling, don't hesitate to seek advice or support from professionals or fellow parents.

 

Answer the following questions honestly to tally an accurate score.  Keep in mind this is for parents with young children that haven’t reached the age of 18.  You will need to do the quiz for each child separately if you handle each in a different manner.  For each question, choose the answer that best describes your behavior. At the end, refer to the scoring system to find out how you rank as a parent!

 

1. How often do you spend quality one-on-one time with your child?

A) Every day, without fail

B) A few times a week

C) Occasionally, when we have time

D) Rarely, I'm too busy

 

2. When your child makes a mistake, how do you respond?

A) I calmly explain what went wrong and help them understand

B) I get frustrated but try to explain it to them

C) I scold them, but then we move on quickly

D) I usually ignore the mistake or get angry

 

3. How involved are you in your child's school activities?

A) Very involved—I attend meetings, events, and help with homework

B) I attend important meetings and events but don't help with everything

C) I rarely attend school events, but I help with homework sometimes

D) I’m not very involved at all in school-related activities

 

4. How do you handle your child's emotional outbursts or tantrums?

A) I listen to their feelings, validate their emotions, and calmly guide them through it

B) I get upset but try to calm them down as quickly as possible

C) I often tell them to stop crying and get frustrated

D) I ignore the outburst or just give them what they want to end it

 

5. How would you describe your approach to discipline?

A) I believe in positive discipline and setting clear, consistent boundaries

B) I tend to use both rewards and consequences, but I could be more consistent

C) I rely more on rewards than consequences

D) I often resort to punishment or yelling

 

6. How do you encourage your child’s independence?

A) I give them age-appropriate responsibilities and encourage decision-making

B) I allow them some freedom but often step in to guide them

C) I make most decisions for them to avoid mistakes

D) I rarely encourage them to make decisions on their own

 

7. How often do you praise your child for their achievements?

A) Frequently, I always acknowledge their hard work and successes

B) Occasionally, I praise them when I notice their accomplishments

C) I praise them only for big achievements

D) I rarely praise them, as I believe they should do things without expecting praise

 

8. How do you manage screen time and technology use for your child?

A) I set clear limits and ensure they have a healthy balance of activities

B) I limit screen time but it can be hard to stick to a schedule

C) I don't monitor their screen time closely, as they are responsible

D) I let them use screens as much as they want to keep them entertained

 

9. How do you handle conflicts between your children and other family children when they have squabbles?

A) I mediate and guide them to solve conflicts peacefully

B) I step in and tell them to resolve it themselves, but I provide advice

C) I often let them figure it out on their own, even if it leads to tension

D) I tend to ignore it or handle it by taking sides

 

10. How well do you balance work and parenting?

A) I manage my time well and make time for both my job and my child

B) I try to balance work and parenting, but sometimes it’s difficult

C) I often feel overwhelmed trying to juggle both

D) I prioritize work and often neglect spending time with my child

 

11. How do you handle your child’s negative behavior?

A) I try to understand the root cause and address it calmly

B) I address the behavior with consequences and a discussion

C) I punish them quickly to teach a lesson

D) I ignore the behavior or give in to avoid a conflict

 

12. How often do you make time for self-care as a parent?

A) Regularly, I make sure to take time for myself to recharge

B) Occasionally, when I can fit it into my schedule

C) Rarely, I often put my child’s needs before my own

D) I never prioritize self-care, I’m always focused on my child

 

13. How do you handle your child’s curiosity and questions?

A) I answer their questions thoughtfully and encourage learning

B) I answer most of their questions but sometimes rush them

C) I give short, simple answers and don’t engage deeply

D) I often brush off their questions or ignore them

 

14. How do you show affection to your child?

A) I show affection through hugs, kind words, and spending quality time

B) I show affection but not as often as I’d like

C) I’m not very expressive, but I care deeply

D) I don’t show much physical affection

 

15. How do you handle stressful parenting situations (e.g., when your child is sick or upset)?

A) I stay calm, reassure my child, and look for solutions together

B) I get stressed but try to manage and provide comfort

C) I get overwhelmed and struggle to cope with stress

D) I often react emotionally and find it hard to stay calm

 

Scoring System:

For each question, assign points as follows:

• A = 4 points

• B = 3 points

• C = 2 points

• D = 1 point

 

🎯Results:

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🌟 60-75 Points: Excellent Parent

You’re doing an amazing job! You are highly involved, nurturing, and have a strong understanding of your child’s needs. You provide a balanced, loving environment and are proactive in fostering your child’s growth and development.

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👍45-59 Points: Good Parent

You’re a good parent who tries to balance everything while showing love and support. There may be a few areas to work on, yet, you are providing a healthy and positive environment for your child.

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😐 30-44 Points: Needs Improvement

You’re doing some things right, but there are areas where you could improve to better support your child’s emotional and developmental needs. Taking time to reflect on your approach and making small changes could have a positive impact.

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🚩 15-29 Points: Struggling Parent

Parenting can be overwhelming and it seems like you’re struggling in certain areas. It’s okay to feel like this but consider seeking advice, reading parenting resources, or talking to a professional to help improve your skills and provide a better environment for your child.

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So, how did you do on the quiz "Are You A Good Parent?"  Did your results surprise you, confirm what you already knew, or maybe open your eyes to something new? We’d love to hear your thoughts—share your score, reflect on what you learned, and let us know how this quiz might shape your parenting journey going forward. Email us at TCPcontact1@gmail.com

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